Where is the Love?

So, what the hell was i doing, that made so busy until i didnt even have time to blog (but still had plenty of to facebook) you ask? My answer? Travelling around Malaysia!! Yesh my bro finally came home for his summer break and that when i get to travel alot!!

I got to spend plenty of time with my princesses, Vanessa and Melissa :). I also managed to celebrate my uncle's 50th birthday combined with Xavier's 17th birthday. It was deff a fun time. I also managed to go to a concert (check out the previous blog) which was freakin awesome!!
I also saw my total cute baby cousin, Olis (yea, the names unique :) Omg hes so cute!! But he's big for his age.. He was about 6 months the last i saw him but he looked lyk he was 10 months old!! Which makes me wonder, what has the mother been eating during her pregnancy?? I mean the kid's wait, i mean baby, is huge!! But hes adoreable. And doesnt cry. Something every parent wishes for. Haha.

I also managed to head back to my mum's hometown. Where i spend ages 6-11. Wow that town has certainly changed!! But when i was back there, my whole family came down. (well not whole, but most of them) came down for my grandma's 5th death anniversery. And i realized something.. Something that I'm actually not in any position to speak of, but since this is my blog, where i vent my feelings, I can say it.

Here's the thing, i look at my family (and im talking about my whole family including uncles, aunts and the rest) and see there's no love. Sure there are some who care about each other, call each other everyday etc.. But then there are some who just prefer others to follow what they say. And its this kinda of attitude that causes this crap to happen. What happened to we'll always be together and have gatherings? What happened to all the happy times? Now it just seem lyk all of you are there just cause you have to. And all these people are supposingly to be the example we, the younger ones are suppose to follow. But if this is how its gonna be then I dont think that we will ever go back to the happier times.

Its not about finding a leader, its about LOVE. yesh, that powerful 4 letter word. If all of you actually had love for each other, none of this would have happened. Also, forgive and forget. Those two thing are essential in any relationship. Be the grown ups that your meant be and teach us, be an example. So that we can learn. As a family, we should stick together, look out for one another not push each other down, ignore each other. And also holding grudges. Yesh, that person may have made some stupid decisions but I strongly believe that people can change. Given that they are given a clean sheet of paper. And not being judged as the same person they were. I also believe in forgive and forget. To me those two things make life better.

So i truly hope that my family does have some time to reflect. And just LOVE. Its a plea from all of us kids. We dont want to be hating each other. We want to be a FAMILY. All smiles, no whines, no cries, just the sound of laughther. :D